Why Women Stay
Economic Independence
Fear of greater violence if she tries to leave
Concern for their children’s grief over separation from their father
Fear of involvement in court process
Cultural and religious constraints
Fear of loneliness
Social isolation resulting in a lack of a support network
Guilt about failure of marriage
Belief that husband will change
Fear of change and uncertainty
Fear of being singly responsible for her life and the lives of her children

Advice to Victims


Advice to Friends
Support the victim.
Do not judge her/him.
Refer her/him to SAFE Shelter.
Honor her/his right to make her/his own decisions.
Build her/his confidence.