Planning for Safety
Without help, domestic violence often continues to get more severe over time. It can sometimes become deadly.

Tell others you trust such as friends, family, neighbors, and co-workers, what is happening and talk about ways they might be able to help.
Memorize emergency numbers for the local police (such as 911), support persons and crisis hotlines.
Identify escape routes and places to go if you need to flee from an unsafe situation quickly.
Talk with your children about what they should do if a violent incident occurs or if they are afraid.
Prepare an emergency bag containing money/checkbooks, extra car keys, medicine, birth certificates, social security cards, immigration documents, and medical cards. Keep it somewhere safe and accessible, such as with a trusted friend.
Trust your instincts—if you think you are in immediate danger you probably are. Get to a safe place as soon as you can.
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Help is just a phone call away.